Time in our life:
In life, we have only 3500 days (9 years and 6 months) for ourselves!
The World Bank has made this assessment assuming the average age of a person is 78 years, according to which we have only 9 years and 6 months for ourselves.
According to this assessment, on average a person spends, 29 years in sleep, 3-4 years in education, 10-12 years in employment, 9-10 years in entertainment, 15-18 years in other daily activities like eating, traveling, daily work, etc.
In this way, we have only 3500 days or 84,000 hours to fulfill our dreams and do something.
“The most valuable thing in the world is time”.
But currently, most people are living a life of despair and they are waiting that there will be a miracle in their life, which will change their destitute life.
Friends, that miracle will start today, and right now and the person who performs that miracle is only you because no one other than you can do that miracle.
For this beginning we have to change our thinking and beliefs, because “What happens to us is what we believe.“
According to scientists, the body of a bumblebee is very heavy, so according to the rules of science, it cannot fly. But the bumblebee does not know this and believes that he can fly, so he can fly.
First of all, we have to change the misconception that what happens to us is written in luck. Because if this happened, we would not have been worshiping God today but would have been giving him badass.
We are responsible for whatever happens to us, we are responsible for what we are, so being happy or not depends on us.
“God helps only the one who helps himself“
If a person thinks that whatever happens to us is not in our hands, then that person should either change this misconception (Wrong Belief) or do not read this article further.
5 Golden Rules Of Success; Rules of life
We are going to make a new beginning and for this, we have to follow some rules. These rules will change your life.
Confidence means “Belief in Yourself”. Having self-confidence in our life is as important as having a fragrance in a flower, without self-confidence, our life becomes like a living corpse.
No matter how talented a person is, he cannot do anything without confidence. Self-confidence is the foundation of success, due to lack of self-confidence a person doubts the work done by him.
The person who is satisfied with himself and possesses the values of determination, hard work, focus, courage, commitment, etc. has self-confidence.
How to improve self-confidence:
- Believe in yourself (Belief in Yourself), make goals, and commit to accomplishing them. When you meet the Goals you have made, it increases your self-confidence many times.
- Be Happy, Motivate Yourself, Don’t be unhappy with Failure and learn from it because “experience always comes from bad experience”
- Think positively, be polite, and start the day with a good attitude (starting the day with a positive attitude).
- Nothing is impossible in this world – The biggest enemy of self-confidence is the “fear” of failure in doing any task and to remove fear, do the task in which you are afraid.
- Tell the truth, be honest, do not smoke, get involved with nature, do good work, help the needy. Because such actions give you positive power, on the other hand, wrong actions and bad habits reduce our confidence.
- Do the work in which you are interested and try to take your career in the same direction in which you are interested.
- Live in present, think positively, make good friends, be frank with children.
Independent refers to thinking and self-reliance.
“Dependency is the biggest enemy of our happiness and the reason for the decrease in happiness in the present is the increase of dependency”.
“What people will say is the biggest disease”: Most people think many times before doing any work, what people will think or say about them by doing that task and therefore they are not able to make decisions and keep thinking, and the time comes out of their hands like water. Such people later regret it. Therefore, do not think too much, do what you think is right, because there will be hardly any work that will be liked by all people together.
Control your happiness yourself: Currently, the happiness of most people depends on circumstances. Such people become happy in favorable conditions and sad in adverse situations. For example, if a person’s work completes, then he becomes happy and unhappy if the work is not made. Friends, be happy in every situation because it is in our hands to try, but the result or situation is not in our hands. Whatever the situation may be favorable or unfavorable, but its response should be good because it is in our hands to respond.
Be self-reliant: Friends, dependence is the end of happiness, so as far as possible reduce expectations from others, do your own work and self-reliance, should not be sad with the actions or thoughts of others because the thoughts or deeds of others are not under our control.
“If you become unhappy because of things or circumstances that are not under your control, then this results in waste of time and regretting the future”
Live in Present:
We get 70,000 to 90000 thoughts in a day and our success and failure depend on the quality of these thoughts.
According to scientists, 70% to 90% of the time of most people goes into thinking of past, future, and futile things.
The past gives us experience and we have to plan for the future, but this does not mean that we spend all our time in this.
Friends, we should remain in the present and make it the best because neither past nor future we have control.
“If you want to be happy and be successful, then stop thinking about something we don’t have control over”
Hard work and focus:
Friends, some scholars have said that success can only be found in the dictionary before hard work.
Hard work does not mean just physical work, hard work can be both physical and mental.
Experience says that mental hard work is more valuable than physical hard work.
Some people make the target too big but do not work hard and then keep changing their targets. Such people only keep planning.
With hard work and dedication, the most difficult task becomes easy.
If the goal is to be attained, then the obstacles will have to be overcome, you will have to work hard and try again and again.
“The only means of survival for unsuccessful people is that they change their goals in case of trouble.”
There are some people who work hard but once they fail, they leave the work in the middle of frustration, so along with hard work, it is very important to have a commitment and determination.
“If a person is not able to succeed even after doing that task again, it means that his way of working is wrong and he needs to work hard.”
Wherever a practical person goes, he fills the environment with happiness, such people are seen from the point of view of society.
Such people behave with gentleness and smile and are always ready to help.
Etiquette is the best beauty without which a person is limited to himself and society gives him the award named “selfish“.
“When the number of your friends starts increasing, then understand that you have learned the magic of practicality.”
A courtesy person goes to any area and becomes his friend, who is ready to die if he needs it.
Character is the foundation of practicality and a person without character can never become courtesy.
It is the shadow of a person and in society, a person is identified not by face but by character. Character is formed by moral values, education, and habits.
The most important feature of practical people is that they are always ready to help.
Conversation ability is an important part of behavioral efficiency. Voice has the power to dissolve sweetness in the atmosphere and fill it with happiness or spark it with fire.
“Words can change the world”
Talking thoughtfully, saying more in fewer words, not talking in vain, finding goodness, praising, listening and giving importance to others, being polite, accepting mistakes, etc. are some basic rules of conversation.
There is so much power in these Golden Rules Of Success that they can change your life and will awaken the power to turn your dreams into reality.
Finally the only thing: “Help the needy, because tomorrow you might need someone’s help”